Sunday, November 16, 2014
Choices should be easy, I mean we all should know the things we want in our lives, but it gets a little complicate when we have no idea if what we're doing it's actually what's right for us. When we make a decision we like to believe is the best we could make, but how do we know? How do we get the certainty of making the right choice when they're thousans of possibilities lying there for us to choose. So, all we got is faith, yes faith, as lame as that might sound it's all we got. Faith that we are making the right decision, that we are doing what we are meant do and becoming who we want to become, but must importantly faith in ourselves and in our own ability to decide what's truly important and right for us.
Sunday, November 9, 2014
She opened her eyes and she just couldn't believe he was right there next to her. It overwhelmed her to feel him this close, to be able to sense the heat of his body his deep breathing, but most of all his eyes which were so blue and beautiful, each part of him was. When she put her hand over his chest and kissed him while he worked his hand down her body, making her shiver all over, she felt this need of never moving from that moment and that passion. There was something so powerful about him touching her so intimately, so close, because somehow she always thought that she would never get that kind of moment.
Saturday, November 8, 2014
Listening seems so easy, right? Well, it's not. I have to say and be honest about how listening to others may seem like the easiest thing in the world, even the most natural but it's sad to say that it's not. Really listening to others and put our own thoughts always is not easy pie. So, the first thing we should try is to let others finish their ideas, which is one the hardest things to do because immediately another person is talking we're unconsciously jumping to conclusions and possible ideas of what that person might say, which at the end it's never what we think it will be. The second would be to learn not to be judgemental since when we are, we are blocking ourselves to the possibility of understanding others as they deserve.
Listening is not being able get words, it's the ability to understand another person's ideas, feelings and believes. So let's try our best to be listeners and not talkers, of course remembering that sometimes words are as necessary as silence.