Life is balance, without it we got entropy, disorder. The secret of life (well, I think it is) is having a life in balance. But don't mistake balance as being always in control of things, because you might get crazy, plus life is much better and fun when things are a little out of control, when you find someone who makes you lose control and do things and experience stuff you never thought you would, I mean that's fantastic., but I am talking about balance of love, happiness, friends, family, work, study. We are in a constant fight to get there, to be happy, to organize our time, to be the best we can be and the fighting doesn't get easier over time.
I know that actually accomplish that it may be an utopia, but I like to think that we can get there, is not going be easy, it's a lot of hard work. But, Hey! Who say anything in life would be easy and if someone did (They lied), nothing you really want in life is EVER easy.