Thursday, October 27, 2011

Values.

We all know what values are, as human beings we are all different but as different we can be, there are things that do not change and values is definitely one of them.

Are values lost? We are always told what’s good and what is bad and as we grow older we can judge and understand things much better, or we think we can but I personally think it just gets messier sometimes. We all know that values don’t change, there are always the same, but as the time pass how people see values do change. We live in a world of constant changing and we have to adjust because if we don’t we get behind, but the question is does adjusting means to lose our believes that we consider important in life?

Sometimes we lose our ability to distinguish what is wrong from what is right because we see so many people doing things that are not okay and looks so normal that we lose perspective about what’s really important. We feel pressure from ‘society’ that seems to play a bigger role everyday in our life and in the way we see things.

Values are the base of society, so if we lost the only thing that really matters, what can we expect for the future?  

We most fight, we must accept ourselves and just don’t lose our standard of morality and the values that we feel that are really important for us, because values are the part that really define us as people of integrity.

“Always do what you think is right for you, not for other”

Sunday, October 16, 2011

Lost.

There are times we felt our life is pretty good, we have the things we need, we have friends, family and lots of stuff. Then, there are the days when we don't feel so lucky, because sometimes the bad things look worse than what they really are. Sometimes we feel lost, simply as that, we don't know why and all we do is question ourselves why we are like that if we have so many good things, but we just simply get lost in the journey of life,  so messy, so full of roads ...and time to time even we are in the right road we still feel we don't quiet belong where we are... Sometimes where we are supposed to be doesn't feel right. 


Then, we learn that is part of life feeling lost sometimes. But  even we know this, we just can't shake the feeling that something is missing in us, that when you are even laughing your hardest, some part of you feels that it's kind of lost, and finding ourselves and that darkness is really hard, but something it's pretty damn sure, when we found ourselves, is easier find us again. Because, eventually, doesn't matter how lost we are, if we have the courage to find our real us, we find the path where we really belong.


"It's a lot easier to be lost that found. It's the reason we're always searching and rarely discovered-so many lock not enough keys"



Some people are in our life without us even asking them to be there, they show up when they have to and leaves us alone when we want to.

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Expectations.

Sometimes we feel that people expect so much from us that is hard to keep the perfect reputation.

We want to be perfect, we desire to be as the people we love see us so damn bad but, reality is much different, isn't it? Do you notice how some people see us as we were untouchable ? As we have a perfect life? But, they don't know what's behind of all the great things we've achieve, there is: pain, sacrifice and hard work.

Expectation sometimes make us want ti be better in every aspect of our life and be as good as people think we are. But, the problem is that things change and expectation starts changing you into a person that pretends being someone else just to be as everyone want you to be, that's when all gets mess up.

So, first: live your life, always be who you want to be, be better, say what you feel and act how you like, stay true to yourselves.

“Our desires always disappoint us; for though we meet with something that gives us satisfaction, yet it never thoroughly answers our expectation”. 

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

New People.

New people come into our life ; it’s a thing about living: you are always meeting new people who might actually become your friends. But the thing is, sometimes we don’t feel like meeting new people, we just don’t. Sometimes we are so happy with the friends that are in our life or just missing the ones who are not there anymore, and we just want them back. So, it’s kind of hard to be in the process again, yep, the process of making friends: To know the person, see if you have anything in common, see if it is a person you can trust. Is just really exhausting doing all this things, so is just much better being in our conform zone and just don’t feel the excitement to meet new people.

But actually thinking a little about, how bad can it be? You know, actually letting some people in? I mean, we are so used to the friends that we have  around us and just the people we've met, so how bad can be?, be open to just to actually share with a new person. And maybe who knows? We might be surprised when we give the chance to be friends.