I saw this post on a page and I like it. It was written by James Douglas Morrison was an American singer, poet, songwriter, writer, and film director.
People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that’s bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they’re afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they’re wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It’s all in how you carry it. That’s what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you’re letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Maybe, we are misunderstood most of the time. That’s a thing we all are afraid, that people just can understand us, sometimes it seem silly to feel this way, because, we think how hard can be, be understood. Let me tell you that is very hard sometimes, is hard to explain our feelings, our actions and most difficult to understand them. Because we want a person who understands us, but what happen when we can’t even understand ourselves? What’s left? Because, we all are scared that we might be judge for the things we say, most of all we are scare to not be able to have someone who can listen and appreciate us for who we are. We, as human beings we are scare of many things, but not being able to have someone who can understands you , that must hurt, a lot. So maybe we should try to understand more the people we love: our friends, family, because after all, we also want to be accepted from our loved ones, no matter our race, sexual orientation or decisions. We want to feel that people support us no matter what.
But we cannot pretend to want the others accept us for what we are, and we don’t accept them. So understand, think, give your 100% and just try not to be that judgy person, because if you want to be understood you must understand others first.
Saturday, July 9, 2011
Have you ever ask yourself if you are just too good for someone? Because that crap about is me not you is like the new version of the dog ate my homework, everybody knows the real meaning but people still use it, like we don’t know what is behind that quote. I mean people get hurt all the time thinking they are not good enough for some people, because other are smarter, prettier, funnier, out our league we say. But seriously, have you go out lately? You go on the street and look at this amazing hot guy/ girl and when you look at his/her couple and you are like O_o how that hot guy ends with that ugly girl and vice versa. Maybe they see something we don’t. So screw chances, maybe after all we are too good for some people. I am not saying you can have anyone you want because, you can’t. But even the most irritate girl/boy you can’t stand, for some reason find someone who can. So chances are that you are going to find someone too. Trust me, the world is not that mess up. It needs a balance.
Because at the end, we are the ones who can choose if we want to be alone or not, sometimes is not in our hands but most of the time it is.